Showing posts with label liberty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label liberty. Show all posts

Sunday, March 4, 2012

I, too, am a slut.

For much of my adult life, I took birth control pills. I even had to take them for a while after my husband's vasectomy, because my gynecologist hoped the hormones might help to control my fibroid tumors. The pills were not cheap. Big pharma is constantly tinkering with the hormone combinations in birth control pills, and many of the newer versions are quite expensive. Fortunately, my health insurance covered the cost of the pills.

My husband works for a division of the state of Tennessee and it is through his employer that we get our insurance, so one could argue that my birth control pills were subsidized by the taxpayer. According to Rush Limbaugh, this makes me a slut and a prostitute, and in exchange for my medication, I should have been compelled to provide him with videos of me having sex.

That is what he said.

And I'm not alone. A lot of women need birth control, not to prevent pregnancy, but because the hormones can serve lots of other therapeutic purposes, like treating painful ovarian cysts.

Limbaugh has since apologized, sort of, but in the meantime, some interesting things have come to light.

First of all, the ignorant men who are trying to force us to let them decide whether or not women should have access to birth control have no idea how birth control works -- or how the female body works, for that matter. Here's Rush Limbaugh once again exposing his shocking ignorance on his radio show (let the video load and then go to minute 13 if you want to head straight to his willful stupidity, and then keep watching if you're in the mood for a bit of Mitt Romney lunacy).

And secondly, if we look closely at what Rush said, we discover a few surprising things. Here's Limbaugh's "apology."
For over 20 years, I have illustrated the absurd with absurdity, three hours a day, five days a week. In this instance, I chose the wrong words in my analogy of the situation. I did not mean a personal attack on Ms. Fluke.

I think it is absolutely absurd that during these very serious political times, we are discussing personal sexual recreational activities before members of Congress. I personally do not agree that American citizens should pay for these social activities. What happened to personal responsibility and accountability? Where do we draw the line? If this is accepted as the norm, what will follow? Will we be debating if taxpayers should pay for new sneakers for all students that are interested in running to keep fit? In my monologue, I posited that it is not our business whatsoever to know what is going on in anyone’s bedroom nor do I think it is a topic that should reach a Presidential level.

My choice of words was not the best, and in the attempt to be humorous, I created a national stir. I sincerely apologize to Ms. Fluke for the insulting word choices.
From that statement, we can extrapolate these interesting tidbits:
  • Rush believes that taxpayer subsidized insurance should not pay for viagra. Viagra makes it possible for flaccid men to have sex. Rush does not agree that American citizens should pay for these social activities.
  • Rush thinks Darrell Issa's activities in the House are absurd, because the committee he chairs held a hearing on contraceptives mandates, and Rush believes we should not be discussing personal sexual recreational activities before members of Congress. (It's a funny thing, though, that instead of attacking the man who brought the issue before Congress, Rush instead chose to viciously assail a fairly minor player in the hearing -- a woman who tried to participate, but was turned away by Issa.)
  • Rush thinks his show is absurd.
  • Rush, appropriately, likes the word "absurd."

I'll tell you what is absurd. Letting celibate men -- not doctors, not scientists, not those who are at all familiar with the female body and how it works, not me, for christ's* sake -- decide whether or not I should have access to birth control.

*or should that be for Artemis's sake?


UPDATE: OK, so keep in mind, Rush kept this attack going for three days before he said "oops! Sorry, I didn't mean to say that!!" Perhaps he's on drugs again and has lost control. But I don't think so. A lot of people have wondered if the only reason he "apologized" is because he lost most of his sponsors and advertisers. And his behavior supports that possibility:

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The willful stupidity. It is so epic.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Yes, yes, and yes.

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And as long as we're talking about this, please allow me a moment to drive this one point home:

Dear Fat, Old Men,

Until you bring even just a few of those of us who actually possess a vagina and a uterus to your meetings, we don't care what you decide. Fuck you.

Sincerely,
A Gyno-American

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Stand Your Ground!

The only Ellen I ever see is in clips, and I'm trying not be as political as I used to be here on the blog, but a friend directed me to this impressive commentary and I'm compelled to share. It is yet another bit of good news in a week when Komen didn't get to weasel away from a poorly informed political decision and Prop 8 was properly struck down. Yay for rising above the haters and ignorance peddlers!

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

A History of the Gay Movement (so far)

I read today that video is the future of the internet. I can't muster an argument against that prediction, since I've been finding so many compelling videos lately. Here's a very moving example.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

South Carolina

I'm going to post one more video today and then I'll stop (for now). There was a lot going on over the weekend and I was out of town (and effectively AFK) for most of it, so today I've been doing some catch up. Unfortunately, I missed the debate last night, but it might be just as well -- from what I've seen today, it was pretty disgusting.

You know, I used to be way more rah-rah Democratic party than I am these days. More and more, I'm starting to think of myself as post-partisan. I've got a great Republican county commissioner who I'll be very sorry to lose in this year's redistricting. I admire the work of some Republicans, and I agree with many people that the extremists on the left can be just as deranged as extremists on the right.

But there is one thing that I just cannot do in this election cycle, and that is like any of the Republican candidates. They are assholes, sounding the same dog whistles that became very tiresome many years ago. You can't claim to have a big tent when you pull this kind of bullshit. And the willful obtuseness is pretty fucking annoying, too.

Poor people are some of the "hardest working people in the country." Thanks for saying that, Chris. Bravo. And shame on the willfully ignorant Republicans who are pretending that poor people are the problem.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Be gay today!


Today is Coming Out Day. I hope that whoever you are, you are among people who love you for who you are. If you're not sure, today might be a good opportunity to stick your toe in the water. I know we, as  a society, have a long way to go when it comes to embracing everyone without condition, but great strides have been made and we're still moving.


Be who you are. If the people who surround you can't accept that person, go find some people who can. Come out. Be real. Be happy. Please, let us have the real you. You are loved, even if you don't feel it yet.

(Images by DNAinfo.com are from September's grand opening of the True Colors Residence in Harlem. It is New York State's first permanent supportive housing facility for LGBT youth.)



UPDATE (oct12): Frank Kameny, the Gay is Good Activist, died at 86, on Coming Out Day.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Stuff you may have missed...

This edition goes back a ways, as it's been a while since I've done one of these link roundups...

A progressive's response to Democratic campaign donation requests

Times Free Press: Climate change and fat Tennesseans

• Speaking of fat, follow the link at would you like 1,000 calories with that? and there's this:
How sloppy is that triple Whopper with cheese? It has 1,250 calories, or 62.5% of the recommended 2,000-calories-per-day diet. The Fried Macaroni and Cheese from the Cheesecake Factory? Try 1,570 calories — according to health experts, you're better off eating a stick of butter.
Sorry. I hope you weren't enjoying some fast food crap while you were reading this. But you know, there are healthy alternatives. Maybe if menu labeling laws pass, you might find out about them...

Sherffius: Don't Hope?

Blind man sees with tooth eye!

• When's the last time Mary Landrieu had to take up a collection to pay her medical bills?

Plane crash survivor's story

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Quick Question

Watch this video and then tell me: if you don't support universal public coverage (hello, Mary Landrieu!), what do you suggest this woman do?


ps. Dear Democrats and Obama,

Until I see some serious effort on this issue -- and also some follow-through on all those pesky little promises you've been making to gay Americans over the past few years while you've been taking all their money, I'll be sitting on the sidelines. Okthanksbye!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Big Gay Fundraiser: Stonewall Revisted?

The Democratic Party is throwing a gay fundraiser one a week from today, and plans for the event are deteriorating rapidly while more and more people speak out. Rumors have been flying for the past week, and the story has been picked up by CBS, the NYTimes, NBC and Salon.com. Big-name guests have been pulling out, including HRC's national field director. Pressure has been brought to bear on Democrats in Congress. Gay congresspeople are responding, but not with fervor so much as self-preservation, at best (oh, Barney, how could you?). Apparently Democrats in the White House don't get it -- yet -- but there is probably a reckoning on the way. This a problem that will continue getting worse until the Democratic Party finally stops treating the gay community like a a red-headed step child who should shut up and stay out of sight until the Party needs their financial contributions.

I say it's time for the Democratic Party to grow some stones. Until they do, I'll be hanging out over here with the gays.

BTW, the Stonewall riots took place on June 28, 1969.

More links are on the way, probably. If you want to follow along yourself, AmericaBlog, Pam's House Blend and Joe. My. God. are all providing some excellent coverage. They're all over it.

UPDATES:

Andrew Sullivan is in.

Jared Polis is on the field.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Holiday


I got back from a weekend in the woods (and -- gasp! -- away from the internet!) early this afternoon. I've been unpacking and trying to get caught up in all the various forms of communication since then and all the while, in the background, I've been enjoying the coverage from DC. This really is an extraordinary moment in history and I'm often left breathless as I take it all in. Barack Obama represents so many levels of change -- not just a huge step toward becoming a post-racial country and a dramatic generational shift, but also, if Obama lives up to his promise, a whole post-partisan, post-petty paradigm that could really, truly make Washington a different place. We have a lot of badness to get through, there's no getting around that, but after so many years of divisiveness and cynicism (how can people who don't believe in government do a good job at running a government?), we can, hopefully, at least feel good about the process again.

I am thrilled at the thought that we have elected our first African-American president. That is a huge thing -- a breathtaking accomplishment, which takes us a long way toward becoming a true melting pot as a nation. But Barack Obama was not elected because he is a black man -- and that is the real transcendent matter here. A hundred years ago, many Americans would never have even considered the possibility that a black person might be superior to all other candidates for a job. But last November, millions of Americans of all shades chose the best person, not the black person, to fill the highest office in our land. It may be a fine distinction, but an important one nonetheless. We've finally reached that point described to us by Martin Luther King, Jr. -- we live in a nation where we have shown that people can be judged by the content of their character instead of the color of their skin.

The really cool thing, though, is that this moment in time is about far more than inaugurating our first African-American president. It is about change and hope; thoughtful sacrifice and healing; innovation and progress. Barack Obama is many things -- one of which is the son of a Kenyan man -- but his accomplishments and failures as he governs will be about what he brings to the job, and not about what his parents brought to his conception. He has the potential to join that small number of exceptionally great presidents, bringing much-needed long-term change to the world. This is a point in time that might well end up being one of those major shifts in history that is only really visible from a distance. And we will have been here to see it.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Weekend Musings

Weather Doesn't Get Any Better Than This

It was a gorgeous weekend here in East Tennessee. After Friday's welcome rain, Saturday was sunny and warmer, but still with a hint of fall in the crisp air. The trees are taking on brilliant hues and their leaves are starting to fall. I spent much of the afternoon out among them, enjoying the lovely day. Autumn is my favorite season -- even more so now that I live in the South. After the heat and humidity of a Tennessee summer, it's a huge relief when cooler temperatures finally arrive. Add to that some wonderful colors and fragrances, and it's a joy to behold.

Obama Kicks It Into Gear

His transition web site is up at change.gov (and it's very hip!).

Welcome to a New Blogger

My favorite US governor, David Paterson, is blogging over at Pam's House Blend. His first post, Historic, For All The Right Reasons, appeared on Wednesday. You can find an rss feed of Paterson's posts here.

On Health Care

It was two weeks ago today that I threw my back out. I still sometimes look like a question mark, still can't sit for very long, and I'm still not sleeping very well. And I've yet to get any real medical treatment -- from a system that we, as Americans, pay more into per capita than anyone else in the industrialized world (and costs are escalating at an alarming rate).

I called my primary care physician immediately that day, and was able to get an appointment for last Wednesday. When I saw the doctor in a very brief appointment (for which I waited close to two hours), she said she would call in a referral to a physical therapist. Her nurse called me later that day to confirm the referral, but I'm still waiting to hear from the PT...

I'd love to compare notes with someone outside the US. I can't imagine a health care system that's worse than this one. I'm a very healthy, active person with supposedly good insurance, and yet two weeks after an injury, I'm still waiting for basic treatment.

I've Got No Use for Mormons

Last Tuesday night was indescribable. I was so nervous and for a lot of the evening, I saw lots of eggs, but no birds. And then suddenly, as the polls closed in western states at 11pm, there were the chickens I had steadfastly refused to count, even in those last days of the campaign, when others were starting to crow about the inevitability of an Obama win. I cheered, I laughed, I cried. Victory feels good. The elation was incredible, and it carried me to bed that night.

I woke up on Wednesday with a smile on my face, but then I sat down to check on some races still unsettled the night before, and learned that Prop 8 passed in California, along with similar initiatives in Florida in Arizona. What a crushing disappointment. The most disgusting part of Prop 8 is that its passage was largely funded by out-of-state contributions from the Mormons (should they still get to be tax exempt?). I don't understand why these people feel so compelled to jam their twisted and deranged morality down the throats of the rest of us, but until they back off, the state of Utah and the Marriott hotel chain can kiss a lot of dollars goodbye.

(I would leave Bob and Sundance alone though -- he's a progressive activist and I'm sure the festival will find a creative way to weigh in on the issue.* Also, Steve Young is pretty much the only prominent Mormon who didn't support Prop 8. On the other hand... Donny and Marie? Screw 'em -- a cashed version of a deleted post on the Osmand Family Blog speaks out in support of Prop 8.)

*UPDATE: then again, maybe not... hrmmm...

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Matthew

Today is the 10-year anniversary of the day Matthew Shepard died, six days after he was brutally beaten for being gay.

To mark the anniversary of Matthew's death, Barack Obama issued the following statement:
Today, we pause to remember the heartbreaking and senseless murder of Matthew Shepard. A freshman at the University of Wyoming, Matthew was a young man committed to fighting for equality and changing the world around him. He was tragically taken from us far too early, an innocent victim of an abhorrent hate crime, and never had the chance to see his dreams realized.

In the ten years since Matthew's passing, Congress has repeatedly and unacceptably failed to enact a federal hate crimes law that would protect all LGBT Americans. That's not just a failure to honor Matthew’s memory; it's a failure to deliver justice for all who have been victimized by hate crimes, regardless of race, gender, or sexual orientation. All Americans deserve to live their lives free of fear, and as Americans, it is our moral obligation to stand up against bigotry and strive for equality for all.

Today, Michelle and I send our thoughts and prayers to Matthew's parents, Judy and Dennis, and to all whose lives have been touched by unconscionable violence
Matthew's parents established The Matthew Shepard Foundation in the aftermath of his death. I got to meet Matthew's mother, Judy, when she was in Chattanooga as the featured guest at a fundraiser for a LGBT organization. She's a moving speaker whose incredible love for her son has been redirected into a passion for activism and an intense desire to replace hate with understanding, compassion and acceptance. After her speech, she patiently stuck around until everyone who lingered was able to have a few private words with her, and she demonstrated a real desire to hear each personal story that was shared with her. She made a genuine connection with so many people in such a short time, and left our area with many new Chattanooga friends. If you ever have the opportunity, go see her when she's in your neck of the woods. And in the meantime, here's a segment from MSNBC (via towleroad):


Saturday, October 11, 2008

Today is National Coming Out Day

Which can be a good thing!

Hugs and best wishes to anyone and everyone who is taking the plunge this year! Find a few good, supportive friends and ignore the freepers while you find your footing... and many happy returns of the day!

National Coming Out Day -- For Straight Allies

Friday, September 5, 2008

Video catchup!

While we here at Chez 10K have been distracted by the TV (for weeks, really -- first by the Olympics and then by the Democratic and Republican conventions, respectively), the creative among us have been churning out the videos. Here's a sampling:

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Del Martin

Activist and married woman (at last!), Del Martin died at the age of 87 in a San Francisco hospice today. I'm so glad she and Phyllis Lyon were able to make it legal before she died. Hopefully soon, all people will have the right to marry the people with whom they share their lives (more: PHB, PHB, SFGate, TR, PHB).

UPDATE: in lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to defeat the California marriage ban through NCLR's No On 8 PAC.


Monday, August 25, 2008

First Convention Night

I'm eating and arugula and spinach salad with some squash soup (how elitist is that, huh?!?) and tuning into the beginning of the convention coverage. There's a great lineup for the evening, and while I'm watching, I'll be tossing out a few links from the weekend:

Tennessee Liberal Blogosphere Weekly Roundup: Biden Edition!
Dobson on McCain.
• Save the dates! The debate schedule has been announced!
Majority of U.S. Voters Open to Electing Gay President.
McCain to announce VP pick on Friday.
Things Obama needs to do.
John McCain's devolution on abortion.
Faux Outrage™, or Whither GOP concern trolling?

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Link Catch Up

Friday, August 8, 2008

The Election

Yesterday was primary day here in Tennessee. It wasn't a great day for Hamilton County (we now have a (-nother) kinda sketchy sheriff, since this guy won. But it was a good day in Tennessee, which was struggling through a (-nother) pretty embarrassing primary over on the western side of the state -- even attracting national attention -- because happily, one of the worst candidates ever suffered a humiliating (in every sense possible) defeat. And we get to keep Steve Cohen, who is a great representative. Ha. The good people won.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Barack Obama Adultery and Bigamy!

Not really.

But can you imagine the news coverage if it was true?!? It would be huge. It's not, however, something I concocted from thin air. The story is true, only John McCain is the guy who cheated on his first wife and then married his second wife before the divorce was final with the first wife, who he dumped because she was a cripple and not as rich as the trollop he would ride into the Senate. No kidding. But watch and see how nobody cares about the story, even though the news media would be lapsing into a collective case of apoplexy if Barack Obama had done something even half as bad. Damn liberal media! Oh, yeah -- and then McCain lied about it all. Yet again, you gotta love those Republican family values.

It's been a newsy weekend! I posted a couple of stories yesterday morning, but there's more!

And finally, check out this cool experiment in physics and sound (the tray, which contains a mixture of corn starch and water, is sitting on a speaker while the music plays):